When a child becomes distressed about going to school, simply encouraging them to attend can feel impossible. Understanding the reasons behind their anxiety and providing the right support can help them gradually rebuild confidence and return to school.
School refusal – when your child adamantly insists that they won’t or cannot go to school – is difficult to manage. It can be frustrating and distressing for both the parent and child. When school becomes a serious and distressing experience for you or your child, it’s okay to reach out for help.
School refusal can be frustrating for the parent, and upsetting for the child, and distressing on both parties. However, there is hope! Often, school refusal is caused by any number of underlying issues or learning disorders that may need to be assessed and treated. This can range from ADHD, ASD, learning disorders, bullying, self-esteem issues, a lack of social skills, to depression or anxiety.
A lot can be done to support and guide you and your child during these tough times. Evidence based therapies can focus on depression and anxiety management to enhance school engagement, address potential bullying, develop communication and social skills, assertiveness, self-esteem and self-confidence. Diagnoses of learning disorders may be something that comes to light. Dealing with situations as a group, rather than as individuals via Family Therapy or by joining a Secret Agents Society (SAS) group can also be beneficial.
Whatever brings you here, we’re here to help you find support that feels right for you. Our experienced team provides thoughtful, evidence-based care for children, teens, adults, couples and families, in-person and via telehealth.